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人在职场,免不了要和同事相互帮助,但很多朋友的问题是,一不小心就用力过猛,搞得自己苦不堪言,结局却是取悦了同事却得罪了老板。

今天,孔老师要为我们介绍一个原则、两种表达方式,帮助我们想清楚:哪些事应该帮,哪些事不应该帮,哪些事要晚一点才能帮?如何把我们的真实想法正面积极地传递给同事?

学会使用这些原则和方法,我们就能在守住底线的同时,建立起良好的同事关系。一起来看今天的视频——

思考&讨论

1、同事频繁求助,要不要索性统统拒绝?为什么?

2、最近一次同事向你求助是为了什么事?你当时是怎么回应的?

3、根据以上所学,下一次可以如何改进?如果使用“三明治式沟通法”和“智慧申诉法”,可以如何表达?

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on 22 Oct 2021 11:06 AM
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Reflecting on the past will help us to foresee the future. As the New Year is coming, have you made a resolution for yourself based on your yearly review?

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on 21 Oct 2021 4:53 PM
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欢迎你收看【真实快乐家-视频节目管家罗静芳与“世界需要父亲”资深培训师李德鸿与你畅谈道歉的威力”第一讲

人与人之间的相处与交流,有好有坏,有快乐也有摩擦时的难过,有帮助也有伤害。无论我们如何努力的尽量与人好好相处,有时候在不知不觉间还是会伤害到别人。例如:

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on 21 Oct 2021 4:35 PM
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Nehemiah Was a Team-Player Who Empowered the People. He recognised that people were important and were appreciable assets.  Without their cooperation, city walls could not and would not be built. Hence, he valued them and enlisted their help - sometimes outside the family of God (cf. 2:1-9).  He mobilized and motivated them - "Come, let us rebuild the wall of Jerusalem and suffer derision no more... and they set about their work vigorously and to good purpose " (2:17, 18).

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on 20 Oct 2021 9:32 AM
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认知扭曲

“朋友从来都不主动关心我,所以他们一定很讨厌我。”

“我失败太多次,这辈子再也没有成功的本钱了。”

“困难的任务都落在我身上,偏偏我活该倒霉?”

以上负面对话,常在很多人心里响起,属于典型的认知扭曲,也就是个体以不准确、不客观、不全面的想法感知现实生活。不过它们毕竟只发生在个人的头脑里,所造成的破坏,比起那些发生在众目睽睽之下的负面对话,力度显得轻微许多。

“律师就是只挖法律漏洞给犯罪分子洗白的恶心东西。”

“律师是不是坑人家了才遭人害?”

“人家只是枪杀律师,并没有滥杀无辜,杀的都是该死的人。”

一个多月前,武汉一位40多岁的雷姓男子携带自制的土铳枪,闯入一间法律维权服务中心,瞄准30岁的薛律师头部,事后劫车逃逸,两小时后被捕获。

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on 20 Oct 2021 9:09 AM